Indian society: male with ponytail 

Hey! you what's up?
here's a question for you,
Are you one of those who don't judge people by their looks and appearance and not measure their intellectual by what you just look at first glimpse?
or one of those who just always ready to humiliate and to make fun of people on the basis of their appearance and dressing sense just to look cool infront of a handul of people (friends)?
Is it necessary to let others down just to appear yourself above?
Do ask yourself :)
here I'm with another blog, named it Indian society: male with ponytail.


what it takes and how it become possible.

at a certain age everyone has some interests in life, few has attracted by some kinda looks, few influenced by a type of person it can be politician, businessman or any model or few love to be stay in peace with types of couplets or soothe music or some fascinated to hollywood things whether it is movie or any other thing or few feel happy just by doing some kinda generosity by taking part in social activities and there may be other few people who always try to hide their fascination and believe to live them when they have their own space and stability in life.
everyone has it's own exposure and fascination to life and it's not catching everytime to everyone.

so likewise some has attracted in long hair and ponytail or they love to have some length in their hair or just they have some different taste and it's hard to convince family, specially surroundings n society for such kinda weird interest, at school time you can't even think of it but after the schools when you think of breaking all the stereotypes and stop trimming your hair then after the 2 months when there is certain amount of volume and a length in your hair, your neighbour basically a kinda friend of yours, when look at your hair, he doesn't even give any shit about it still he will come to you and will give his fingers a tour of your head's forest and with a dumbass like face will say what's the matter! why don't you cut your hair? wanna be a girl ummhmm! sucks. then will give a advice Go and take a haircut you're looking like a asshole and blah blah...!
most of the time it will be the person who himself hasn't anything to follow or to do in his individual life!

Stereotypes and people thoughts to it.

when you leave your home with long hair specially when it'll tied by a braid or managed by a iron band, people's eye will on you like you did something illegal or steal their easiness from them and it is kinda same thing just because you violate and break their standards and cliche what they maintained in society and that hurt them deep more to their personal problems. it is easy to live same and follow the cliche but to violate the stereotypes and be weird is a different feeling, here I'm not saying good, awesome or bad, you can decide by yourself.

what will people ask you and how they criticize you when see you in pony or in some lengthy hair.

The very common is, Do you like to be look like a girl? wear saree also and do some makeup and do dance nah!
some will ask to your close ones or say when they found you around, "Is he has a clapping job" or go for dance in functions.
there may be some who will doubt on your sexual orientation, like on yours taste, sounds weird or may be funny but this is what it is.
some devotional kinda people will relate it to their different opinions and ask you questions like do you have some kind of vow to be fulfill.
but on the other hand there will certain people too who will give compliments and cherish your style because they also had the same taste at some time of their life or they too wish the same thing in their life but couldn't do for the reasons.

people have nothing to do with, what you are doing and how you manage it or what your aspirations in life they will come to you just to judge you on the basis of results and with the outcomes you have, and to measure your intelligence and your future achievements with the scale of their standards and cliche they made by themselves. So let them do their job, because if they won't judge you then whom do you prove wrong and build you cult status in your own eyes. 


My perspective to this thing.

we live and grown up in the society where people around us matters us the most than our own happiness and satisfaction, we always have the fear of society what the person will say if I do this or what my family have to listen and face by my decisions.
basically, "CHAAR LOG KYA KAHEGE" the well known n mostly used phrase in the society we live.

so when you break the cliche and the standards made by the people and make yourself prepare to be judged and to be your own and care for your satisfaction more to people's expectation and do something odd and weird thing in life and ready to handle the criticism, it brings another level of sedulousness
 in your own individual.
It is the most beautiful feeling when you made what numbers of people unable to make just because the fear of surroundings and manage yourself with the taunts and overcome with the fear of being judged..
these things brings another level of confidence in life and boost the individuals individuality.
Don't go with anyone's words just experience yourself by making something odd thing done and feel the feeling, you won't be care again what people are saying and what the opinion they are making because doing something is far better to making opinions.   

"Change your perspective toward things cause it leads you and your expectations too."

yes I was waiting for you to reach here, just to tell you know that you are awesome n special.

Thankyou!, now you read this much so write a little too in the comment section to let me know your thoughts too. :)